One of the things I remember while growing up as a kid was,
being reminded of proper table etiquette.
My stepfather would say to me, “You can’t behave like that, Lisa, when you
are dining with the Queen”. Usually he
was referring to me having my elbows on the table or my not eating something I
didn’t care for. I do remember being
told; however, that if I stuck my little finger out when sipping, that I would make proper company to have tea with the Queen.
Those early memories must have stuck with me, because having high tea in
England and seeing where the Queen and other Royalty lived were some of the
things I was most looking forward to, while visiting England.
I had visions of dressing up in fascinators and taking the
girls to a quaint little tearoom. There, we would be served fancy sandwiches
and sip our tea out of delicate teacups, centuries old. The ornate silver service would gleam and
yes, our little pinkies would be standing at attention. I was thrilled when our morning discussion of
what the day would hold, revealed a trip to Audley End, a beautiful old home in
the country, and afternoon tea.
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There was a working kitchen at Audley End where they made
biscuits and bread from scratch. |
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The gardens of Audley End, so beautiful! |
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Us in front of the Cloud Hedge, Audley End. |
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A beautiful setting for Mark to play! The inside was spectacular and the furniture and books were as they
were in the early 1800's, even the paintings on the wall remained in their original spot and form. |
Well... there would be no fascinators (no room for those in
the backpacks), but I did pull on one of my dresses that I had brought along just
in case the opportunity arose to wear more than Lululemon and flip-flops. After a beautiful day in the country our
timing was impeccable. We arrived at a
little tearoom, in one of the prettiest towns in Essex, shortly after 4:00 -
proper afternoon teatime. We asked about
afternoon tea and my spirits dipped a little when we were told that afternoon
tea had to be ordered in advance. We were
offered cream tea instead. Now, don’t get
me wrong, cream tea is fabulous - warm scones, clotted cream and strawberry
jam, but I really had my heart set on the fancy little sandwiches and fruit to
accompany that cream tea. I wanted the
whole experience. My reaction must have
told a story, as the kind woman responded quickly that she could in deed fix us
up an afternoon tea if we wished. And oh
did I wish!
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Anxiously awaiting our tea! |
We took our seats outside at the only table available, which
had a beautiful view of the river, but was a little close to the company van. Oh well, I just wouldn’t pay attention to the
fact that we were practically sitting on the street and I would focus on the
beauty of the river instead. After all,
we were having tea. My excitement was
mounting as I imagined the tiered server arriving and wondered what flavor of
tea we would be offered.
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Notice the van.... and my silly husband! |
The luncheon arrived and it did look spectacular on the tiered trays, but we didn’t get to choose our tea. Again, everything looked so delicious that I quickly forgot about it and began to enjoy a tuna and cucumber sandwich on the most delicious brown bread - without the crust.
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The tiered trays look wonderful! |
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Ally and Mark were dying of starvation and just wanted to eat, but I wanted a photo! |
The teacups were also not the delicate vintage I had expected, and were so heavy that it made holding out our little pinkies quite difficult. The plain white teapot dripped tea down the spout after pouring and was more suited to industrial use than afternoon tea. Even my little brown Betty was better than that!
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No pinkies extended with these mugs! |
I was trying desperately to hold on to my overly romantic
dreams of afternoon tea. Then… things really
started to go down hill. All in a matter
of minutes Ally had spilled her tea, dropped her scone in her lap, was covered
from head to toe in icing sugar and went swimming in her teacup for the sugar
packet that she had just dropped in. Tea
was to be enjoyed without sugar – didn’t she know that…and swimming – come
on! She was shattering all visions of my
afternoon tea right before my very eyes.
Mark thought this was all very comical and the two of them were laughing
so hysterically, that I am pretty sure I heard a snort.
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Goofball! Sorry no photo of the wet, icing sugar covered, Ally. |
Meg was the only sensible one of the bunch and she and I
sipped our tea with the straightest of pinky fingers and delicately nibbled at
the sandwiches on our tiered server, trying to ignore the shenanigans across
the table. Mark and Ally had long ago
devoured their sandwiches and scones and were thinking about ordering an ice
cream cone. Ice cream cones with afternoon tea – where did they think they were
– Hewitt’s Dairy Counter? There is
nothing dainty about big slobbery tongues lapping away at ice cream running
down an arm. We were in Finchingfield, England, for crying out loud, one of the
prettiest towns in Essex, having tea with the Queen. OK, so maybe the Queen wasn’t really there,
but I was imagining she was - and we were never going to be invited back again,
no matter how straight our little pinky fingers were.
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Tea time became a regular occurrence while in Chelmsford! |
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This time, Ally had no mishaps, but Dad... he choked on his tea! |
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Again there was belly laughter, but nothing would interrupt my indulgence,
not even the weight gain! |